Tyra Banks Finally Addresses Her Infamous ‘I Was Rooting For You’ Beratement of ‘ANTM’ Contestant Tiffany Richardson: “I Went Too Far”

And in that moment, a million memes were born…

More than 20 years after she infamously screamed at an America’s Next Top Model contestant, Tyra Banks is finally addressing the legendary reality TV moment. In the new Netflix documentary, Reality Check: Inside America’s Next Top Model, Tyra revealed how “tough” that scene was for her, while others who were there discussed how brutal things actually got.

‘ANTM’ fans will recall the meme-making moment during Cycle 4 in which Tyra viciously berated contestant Tiffany Richardson for seemingly not caring enough about the competition, even after Tyra gave her a second chance to compete on the show.

“You know, I lost it. It was probably bigger than her,” Tyra said in the documentary. ” It was family, friends, society, Black girls, all the challenges that we have. So many people saying that we’re not good enough. I think all that was in that moment. That’s some Black girl stuff that goes real deep inside of me, but I knew I went too far.”

Tiffany— who competed in Cycle 3 but was eliminated because she got into a bar fight— was allegedly mentored off-camera by Tyra and her team in between Cycles 3 and 4.

“When I see this beautiful girl who made some mistakes in the season before and didn’t make it and then we worked with her to get her here, and then to see her kind of giving up, I just…” Tyra said, trailing off.

For those who don’t know the backstory of the infamous “I was rooting for you!” moment,  Tiffany— as well as contestant Rebecca Epley— had just been eliminated from the show when Tyra called them both to come back in front of her. She commended Rebecca for showing emotion about her elimination but scolded Tiffany for seemingly not being upset that she was going home.

“Tiffany, I’m extremely disappointed in you. This is a joke to you,” Tyra said. “You’ve been through anger management. You’ve been through your grandmother getting her lights turned off to buy you a swimsuit for this competition, and you go over there and you joke and you laugh. This is serious to these girls, and this should be serious to you.”

Tiffany attempted to defend herself, which only made Tyra more upset.

“I scream because I care!”

“Be quiet Tiffany, be quiet!” she yelled. “What is wrong with you? Stop it! I have never in my life yelled at a girl like this. When my mother yells like this it’s because she loves me. I was rooting for you; we were all rooting for you. How dare you! Learn something from this…”

As shocking as the scene was to watch on TV, the reality was even more harsh, according to the people who were there to witness it.

“There was a lot more that was really said, and some of the things that were said were really not well-intentioned,” ‘ANTM’ creative director Jay Manuel said in the documentary. “I will probably never repeat the lines that were actually said in that room that day.”

“All I know is the next week we had all the lawyers on-set,” former judge Nolé Marin said.

Exactly.

Tiffany didn’t participate in the new Netflix documentary but did provide further details on what Tyra said to her in an interview published by BuzzFeed in 2017.

The outlet reported that Tiffany claimed that “the argument was ‘1,000 times worse’ in reality. Tiffany also stated that Tyra told her something along the lines of, ‘You can go back to your house and sleep on your mattress on the floor with your baby,’ in front of the other judges, contestants and crew members.

In 2022, Tiffany did an interview with YouTuber Oliver Twixt in which she talked extensively about the show, Tyra and that moment.

“What my experience is, is she’s a fake-ass bitch,” Tiffany said of Tyra.

Tiffany during her interview in 2022…

Tiffany stated that, right after the on-camera argument, Tyra (and her mother) came to Tiffany’s hotel room, and Tyra told her she wanted her to win because Tiffany reminded Tyra of herself. Shortly afterward, Tiffany did an interview for ‘ANTM.’

“She done sauced me up and I’m feeling some type of way, like ‘I love Tyra and Tyra loves me and she’s gonna be my mentor!” Tiffany said. “She called me a couple times once we went home and, you know, she was just prepping me [before the episode aired].”

Tiffany said she believed that Tyra wanted to prevent her from speaking fully about what Tyra really said, so she tried to make Tiffany feel loyal to her. 

“I learned things from it, I learned the hard way, but I didn’t learn anything about modeling,” she said, adding that she is still known and recognized because of that scene. “…Tyra had to get that coin and protect her name.”

When recalling the incident, Tiffany stated that she and Tyra “had an exchange of words and then they took me… to go pack my s**t.”

“I’m not gonna lie and say I was in her face, although I wish I was,” Tiffany said of Tyra, whom she denied was acting “maternal” toward her during the scene.

“I wish I could have Tyra-Mailed her right in the face!”

“You’re going to sit up here and yell at me like this and you’re thinking that you’re ‘being a mother?’ How, Sis? You’re not being a mother to me,” Tiffany said in 2022. “You got your little moment; you got your little ratings up. The next time I spoke to her was when she came to the hotel with her mom, and that was just, like, damage control. 

“…She was like, ‘I’m gonna get on this Black girl, because if I was white she wouldn’t have did it,” Tiffany added. “I don’t care what nobody says, she wouldn’t have did it.”

Tiffany also confirmed she never received an apology from Tyra for what she said.

Yeah, Tyra, it was tough for you.

Looking back 20 years later for the documentary, Tyra seemed to understand the seriousness of her moment with Tiffany, while also feeling like her anger was justified.

“I just wanted to change this woman’s life. I felt like she could have been a supermodel with a capital S,” Tyra said. “And I just saw all of that going down the drain. I saw her just not believing in herself and just giving up and not just giving up on the modelling competition, but a deeper…”

Jay Manuel— who called the incident “the most-difficult moment on set I’ve ever experienced”— seemed to take offense with how the scene has become laughable over the years.

“People tried to make it funny, but it really wasn’t,” he insisted.

‘Reality Check: Inside America’s Next Top Model’ is now streaming on Netflix.

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3 Responses


  1. Well it probably didn’t help that moment lived on infamy in meme form on the internet forever. I remember watching that moment it in real time and knowing Tyra and her amazing hand acting (it’s her signature move) that she was “putting it on” for the show. She always played it up like I am hard on you because the industry is hard but it always felt like it was for the show. Same goes for the ridiculous makeovers, it felt like she wanted to punish those she hated. It’s hard to sit in 2026 and judge an early aughts reality show because it’s just such a different world. But cruel is cruel and Tyra let the show get to her head.


  2. I watched the documentary and I have mixed feelings about it. I think there were obvious problematic situations on the show that needed to be addressed but I also think the documentary filmmakers were being total hypocrites. They are critiquing Tyra Banks and AMNT producers for doing abhorrent things and editing the show to “make good TV” when the documentary filmmakers do the exact same thing. They were selective in what situations were talked about and which contestants they interviewed and which perspectives were shown so it would flow with the specific narrative that they wanted to put out there. You can also tell a lot of the the answers from the interviewees were edited and chopped up so it would like they were responding to certain situations when they were probably talking about another subject. There have been too many times over the years that documentaries have painted a different picture than what the actual truth is so I’m always very careful with how I judge things when I’m given selected and edited facts about the subject at hand. I learned that first with Making a Murderer.

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