Amber Portwood Flips Off Her Longtime ‘Teen Mom’ Co-Stars Maci Bookout & Catelynn Lowell; Implies They’re No Longer Friends

Maci and Catelynn should probably wear helmets and chest protectors the next time the cast gets together…safety first.

Amber Portwood‘s friendships with her Teen Mom co-stars go back 16 years, but during a rant on TikTok Live on Monday, the couch enthusiast made it clear that things between her and Maci Bookout and Catelynn Lowell are no longer hunky-dory.

As The Ashley previously reported, Amber took swings at MTVGary Shirley and the show’s producers during her Internet tirade, and even her longtime friends Maci and Cate weren’t safe from Amber’s anger. After Amber brought up how upset she got when some of her co-stars— particularly Cheyenne Floyd and Jade Clinecriticized her treatment of her daughter Leah during a recent episode, a fan in the Live chat pointed out that Maci and Catelynn have always stuck by Amber, a statement that Amber seems to disagree with. 

“Maci and Cate have been good to me? Hold up real quick,” Amber said before flipping off the camera.

“I guess this is my thanks for driving all the way to North Carolina and scrapping your devastated corpse off the couch after Gary 2.0 ditched you.”

Amber did not elaborate on her reasoning for telling her former BFFs to essentially F off. To The Ashley’s knowledge, Maci and Catelynn have not publicly spoken negatively about Amber or her parenting. It appears, though, that Amber may be upset that Maci and Cate didn’t stick up for her after the other girls slammed her. 

“I don’t want to hear from anybody, because my mouth will go waaaaaaaaahhh,” Amber said. 

Amber claimed that she does not watch ‘Next Chapter’ and only knows what’s discussed on the episodes because her mother tells her. She did, however, slam MTV for getting the other girls on the cast to talk about her on-camera. 

“I feel bad for my daughter and why she thinks the way that she thinks of me. And I feel bad for everyone else getting involved. I don’t think it’s right for MTV to push it on Cheyenne and them, to be sitting there [talking about me],” Amber said.

Leah asking Cheyenne if she thinks Amber will ever put down her phone and get off TikTok Live (probably)…

“I can’t watch this s**t because it gets too hurtful,” Amber added. “And I just don’t want to hear about it anymore. I’m not delusional, guys.”

As The Ashley previously told you, Amber spent a portion of the Live bragging that she was the girl who “started” the ‘Teen Mom’ franchise. When fans wrote in the comment section that they consider Maci to have “started” ‘Teen Mom,’ since her episode of 16 and Pregnant was the first to air, Amber got upset, insisting that, because hers was the pilot episode, she started the franchise.

“That ain’t the flex you think it is, Ambie.” 

As for Maci and Catelynn, they have yet to respond to being flipped off by Amber. However, the last time they were asked about Amber in an interview, they kept things as positive as possible. Back in January, while doing on-camera interviews to promote the new season of ‘Next Chapter,’ a reporter from TooFab asked Maci and Cate (along with Leah Messer) how Amber was doing following her traumatic breakup with Gary Wayt. While all three girls looked unhappy that Amber was brought up, they still refrained from saying anything negative. 

“I wouldn’t say that it’s so much as ‘keeping tabs on her,'” Catelynn said. “I think it was more of checking in on a friend [and saying], ‘Hey, how are you doing? Are you OK?’ Which me and Maci both did. We both made it a point to reach out to her.”

“She knows that we’re there for her,” Maci— who actually went to North Carolina last June to pick Amber up after Gary 2.0 stranded her at a vacation rental home— added. 

Cate did admit that she and Maci “haven’t heard from her much” but that wasn’t unusual for Amber.

“She kind of does that,” Cate said. “She’ll talk and she’ll reach out a lot and then she won’t. Maybe that’s a good thing, maybe she’s doing well.” 

Maci after hearing this statement…

During Amber’s Live, Gary and his wife Kristina were also on the receiving end of Amber’s wrath, with Amber accusing them of purposely trying to shut her out of Leah’s life and doing illegal things to make it happen.

“Gary and Kristina never wanted me in [Leah’s] life,” Amber claimed. “They always said that she was busy, this, that and the other. All these excuses. And then all of a sudden Leah didn’t want to come stay [at my house] anymore. Blah blah blah. Guys, I have not been able to do anything with my daughter legally that I am supposed to [be able] to do. Because [Gary and Kristina] have been illegally doing their s**t.

“…[Leah’s] dad just needs to go away and let me be with my daughter alone,” Amber said later. “And that’s all I’ve wanted.”

UPDATE! Amber has issued an apology to Maci and Catelynn. Click here to see what she had to say, and to read how Catelynn responded to Amber flipping her and Maci off. 

RELATED STORY: Amber Portwood Claims She’s Getting ‘Teen Mom: The Next Chapter’ Cancelled: Here’s What’s Really Going On (Exclusive)

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63 Responses


  1. I honestly think that Leah doesn’t want anything to do with Amber, she doesn’t want to see her or spend time with her. So, Gary and Kristina make give up excuses that she’s busy to prevent Amber from getting her feelings hurt from the truth!!


    1. Yeah. As do I. Also cpts and severe anxiety. I take my mental health very seriously. I take my meds. Abstain from alcohol and other substances. Amber makes zero attempt to get better. She wants to be a “victim.” O excuse for her behavior.


  2. If Amber was telling the truth then she would be able to prove it. If Gary and Kristina were actually doing “illegal things” then why not take them to court especially if there’s a court order granting Amber visitation rights to Leah. I have a feeling its probably one of those things where she asked to see Leah last minute & was told no & Amber just never asked again & turned it into Gary keeping Leah away from her. Amber has a tendency to be extremely manic so I definitely wouldn’t allow Leah to be alone with her. Amber is confusing the IPTG’s as laws when in fact they are not. I have a parenting time order in Indiana & unless your parenting plan is written to specifically state what is allowed or not allowed then you don’t have much room to argue. Gary is in the wrong for allowing Leah to dictate when she sees Amber because its never okay to allow the child to decide & that is one thing Indiana Courts are very strict on.


  3. Not saying it’s not possible this is just Amber being… well Amber but there is no way she’s not completely off her meds now. I suspect she’s doing other stuff too.


    1. Amber has always been selfish, she only wants to be a parent when it’s convenient for her. She has no accountability, and no self-awareness. Cursing her daughter out on her birthday on TV and drinking. They were smart enough to leave her sitting there in the restaurant, so that she wouldn’t ruin the rest of her day. Let Kristina fill the void in that poor girls life. So she can start getting on with her life. You’re the one that’s canceled, not teen mom 2, your own actions have led this to happen. Good luck getting a job and supporting yourself on the couch.


  4. I guess she doesn’t realize her days of manipulating and putting Leah on guilt trips are over. IMO she thinks if she can get Leah alone, she can manipulate her , like when she was little. It seems to me that Gary has bent over backwards trying to keep Amber in Leah’s life(until recently).


  5. Publicly attacking everyone who has ever supported you. Now that’s an interesting choice. You just go ahead and burn all them bridges, Amber.


  6. A really don’t like amber, but her behavior lately is concerning. I’m wondering if she’s alone? I know before when she went on tangents, she took it out on her relationships and it appears she is single. I really hope this isn’t the beginning of a spiral so bad she ends up hurting herself or even more.


    1. I’m wondering the same thing and what the meds situation is.
      I would honestly hope her family would step in at some point for some kind of intervention. The way she’s acting, I don’t think Amber being “Baker acted” would be a bad thing.


  7. Maybe Amber should just go. The whole cast is the problem, her child is the problem, her ex is the problem, even her closest friends who have always stuck by her are the problem. Maybe poor Amber should just go and live in peace now.


  8. Leah has repeatedly said on camera for YEARS that she doesn’t want to be alone with Amber. I’d get a restraining order at this point, because that really did feel like a threat against Gary and Kristina.


  9. Cate and Maci have always gone so hard for Amber, no matter how she was acting. If they didn’t publicly acknowledge the things that were said on the show previously, Amber probably sees that as automatic betrayal.


    1. Holy shit! I never thought I would agree with Amber on anything, your remark about Maci and Catelyn “Going hard” for Amber is total bullshit. The only time you saw Cate, Maci, and Cheyenne going to court to support Amber, or doing ANYTHING for Amber the camera’s were rolling and in order to get paid THEY HAD TO GO TO THESE THINGS GOING ON IN AMBER’S LIFE. Maci and Cate will do ANYTHING and I mean anything to keep this MTV check going. Look at her and Ryan now, she hates Ryan’s guts people,and he hates her, oh and her husband hates Ryan also, this is all for show and that huge MTV paycheck. Amber is a toxic person and so are Cate, Cheyenne and Maci, please MTV end this shit show.


      1. Wow, you’re too much. I never mentioned court at all. And yes, Maci and Cate definitely always had ambers back, even when Amber made big mistakes. Even when Amber was the messiest of messes. They always had her back.


        1. STFU, did you not watch the show. Did you not see how pissed off they were that they had to go to court to “support” Amber? Especially Cheyenne with all the eye rolls.


          1. Cheyenne doesn’t need a “check.” She comes from a wealthy family. Maci and cate always stuck up for Amber. The way you are freaking out is weird. It’s as if you have some personal stakes in the situation. Maybe you need anger management also.


      2. It’s also extremely questioning how crazy you went over my comment. I think you need actual help.


        1. Now now girls. You are getting way too invested in these characters. That is exactly what MTV wants you to do. None of this is real. It’s a bunch of sleazy people basically saying what they are told to say by the even sleazier producers


  10. honestly as much of a slap to the face this was, this might be what maci and cate need to get away from amber because they always come off exhausted when it comes to being there for amber yet u never see amber going out of her way to be there for maci or cate


    1. Amber is a legit energy vampire. She has to be exhausting to deal with. If I were them, I’d be so relieved to cut her out. I think in the past, mtv was encouraging them, but not anymore since now Amber is pissing them off now


  11. Does Indiana have any form of mental health hold like the Baker ACT or 51-50? Because Amber needs to be taken in ASAP. I’m not even saying this in a mean way, but I wouldn’t be surprised if she hurts herself or others soon. She’s clearly spiraling.


    1. Yes, I’m an RN from indiana. She would need to be a threat to herself or others. Delusional rantings on tiktok isn’t going to get her committed. Best case is her family convinced her to go in and get stabilized.


      1. Exactly. Amber is annoying but let’s not act like posturing on TikTok should get you hospitalized against your will. The bar should be higher than that


          1. We didn’t forget, Amber just currently does not meet the legal requirements for involuntary hospitalization.


      2. I doubt her family will do anything other than continue to coddle her, unfortunately. Her talking about how she wants Leah alone and how the relationship would be good with Gary out of the way (paired with her history of insane violence and her deteriorating mental state) is what has me concerned. The Shirleys need to be filing some type of protection order against her, or at the very least harassment. She’s worse every day.


  12. It’s time for her to turn off the camera, get off the sofa and make an appointment with her doctor and get her medications adjusted, if she’s taking them. She’s too far down this delusional rabbit hole. Her rants and accusations are disturbing. Her daughter is a lost cause, she’s old enough to know what she wants and Amber is not it. She has time still to salvage her relationship with her son if she gets help.


  13. Somebody needs to call APS on her or the police to do a wellness check bc this bitch is crazy af.


  14. It is abundantly clear that Amber is not on her medication properly. Shes having some real manic episodes.


    1. Isn’t Dr. Drew a consultant to this show or something? I just remember Celebrity Rehab all his patients kept dying prematurely.


  15. Leah gets to see all the footage from TM, the good the bad and the ugly, and she sees Amber was all talk and that Gary and Kristina both tried very hard to support and keep Amber in Leah’s life. Gary has picked her a$$ up for jail, has gone to court dates and been a shoulder for this women all when he never had to be, even when i think of that its shocking considering he was on the end of her DV. This is all documented for Leah to watch and have all the knowledge she needs to make her own decisions!


  16. Amber has never tried to pursue or enforce visitation rights for Leah. She talked about it when Leah was younger mostly so she could complain about how Gary is the bad guy. But, she has never done it. She’s never gotten Leah’s sports schedule so she could attend volleyball games. She’s never gotten the school calendar so she could attend meetings or be involved. She just sits on her couch whining about Gary and Kristina keep her from Leah. If she wanted to fight to be in Leah’s life she could have. But, then she wouldn’t have been able to cry about what a victim she is.

    And, in true Amber form, she’s burning the Catelynn/Maci bridge too. Sounds about right.


    1. I never realized she never did all that. I was a non custodial parent too but I always kept my visitation, paid my child support, paid for what was needed, attended parent/teacher conferences, got grades, spoke to teachers, etc..


  17. Well I hope Catelyn and Maci hear about this and wipe their hands clean of her and don’t have her back anymore. They always supported Amber, and never talked bad about her even though she deserved it. Amber hopefully just lost the 2 people who actually had her back.


    1. unfortunately i feel like they’ll still have her back when she treats them like gary and kristina, not talk to them for months after starting mess with them and then coming back around when she’s feeling better like they’re a big happy family and act like nothing happened


  18. At least we can all agree that Jenelle didn’t start the show and make it what it is!! Jenelle likes to throw her hat in the ring also for that honor. The poor kids at this point! Why is Amber even going on SM and doing lives like this?? Completely different situations but I swear, her and Jenelle, post these things and have no clue how it makes them horrible looking..ugg…


  19. Bitch, YOU never wanted to be in your daughter’s life! Wtf! We have watched for YEARS, you putting men before your own child. It’s fucking you!!! YOU are the god damn problem. Holy fuck. Does someone need to beat that into her skull for her to understand!?


    1. @nic ~ how…nice of you to take time from your (no doubt very busy) day to visit this site and correct posts. what ever would theashley do without you? 🙄🙄🙄

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