“90 Day Fiance: The Other Way” Star Gabe Pabon Says He & Wife Isabel Posada Are Divorcing: “I Can’t Put Up A Front Anymore”

Another “90 Day” couple has bit the dust.

Less than a year after viewers saw Gabe Pabon and Isabel Posada tie the knot on Season 4 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way, Gabe says he and his wife are reportedly calling it quits. 

Gabe directed social media followers to his YouTube page last week, where he posted a life update and addressed speculation surrounding his and Isabel’s marriage.

“All right, so I’m probably going to regret making this video about I just have to get everything out there right now,” he in the video. “I won’t go into specifics, but I’m just tired and I can’t put up a front anymore.”

Gabe went on to tell viewers that he is “tired” and that for the last month, has been working 18 hours almost every day between his day job and driving for Uber. Gabe claims he and Isabel “are going to get divorced,” as he’s “tired of making excuses for her” and feels that he’s been betrayed and used.

“ … I had everything taken away from me,” he continued. “I’m left with nothing, nothing at all. I have nothing to my name. My business is going down, it’s nothing now.”

(Gabe– who has been open about transitioning from female to male— owns GMPWear, a company that sells undergarments that come “pre-packed” with, um, man meat.)

“I would have never expected my life to end up like this,” Gabe added.

In addition to being faced with having to “work and work and work” with nothing to show for it, Gabe claims there have been incidents where Isabel would disappear for weeks with “no explanation,” leaving him to make excuses for her absence when people would ask where his wife was. 

“ … I can’t defend this anymore,” he said. “I feel like it was just, everything was an act and I’m hurting. I’m hurting a lot and I have nothing. I feel embarrassed … I feel dumb as hell.”


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In the description section for his YouTube video, Gabe stated that his sadness over the failure of his marriage has turned to anger.

“Now everyone can stop asking me questions,” he wrote. “It’s been a terrible start to my new year. I am not sad anymore I am angry, my blood is boiling and I am tired of new situations happening every time I pick up my phone. This is only my truth and my perspective, if you want to know her side then ask her. Moving forward I will slowly build myself up, follow my ig to get a closer look into my life.”

While Gabe confirmed in his YouTube video that he is still in Colombia, he explained that he is currently dealing with issues in not only his marriage, but also his living situation.  

Gabe said he had relocated to a new apartment in Colombia; however, he has “a lot of financial obligations” from his and Isabel’s previous apartment, due to the fact that funds “weren’t going to where they should have been going– something he allegedly didn’t learn about until recently.

Because of this, Gabe said he is now going to lose his new apartment, including his down payment.

“So that’s where I’m at and it sucks,” he said. “I don’t want to ramble and I don’t want to get into specifics of other things that happened, but this can be put to rest. It’s done. I’m tired.”

Gabe said he’s now “starting from ground zero.”

Isabel has yet to respond to Gabe’s divorce claims. 

Watch Gabe’s video below. 

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(Photos: TLC; Instagram; YouTube)


  1. That really sucks. They seemed like such a good couple but it just goes to show that we never really know what’s going on behind the scenes

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