Kail Lowry has seven kids and four baby daddies, and the fact that she is no longer with any of her kids’ dads is starting to weigh heavily on the former Teen Mom star.
During the most-recent episode of her Coffee Convos podcast, Kail told her co-host Lindsie Chrisley that she should have been more careful about who she had kids with.
“That’s something that’s been on my mind for the past week or so, maybe like two weeks,” Kaid said, telling Lindsie— who only has one child by her ex-husband Will Campbell— that she “learned the first time” in regard to having kids with men you aren’t going to stay with.
“And I sat here and literally created four broken homes. And that’s been something I’ve been struggling with for the past week or two weeks,” Kail said.
“…Like, I almost cannot believe that I did this,” she stated later.
As ‘Teen Mom’ fans are aware, Kail has a cornucopia of baby daddies, starting with Jo Rivera (whom she shares son Elliott with). She also has son Lincoln with her ex-husband Javi Marroquin, as well as two sons— Lux and Creed— with her ex Chris Lopez. Kail shares daughter Valley and sons Rio and Verse with her ex-fiancé Elijah Scott, whom she broke up with earlier this year.
“Obviously, I’ve always known that I have four baby dads. That’s something that we can’t ignore,” Kail said. “But I never looked at it in a way that’s like, ‘I created this [situation].’ Like, I did that. I didn’t learn the first time, the second time, the third time or the fourth time.”
When asked if she would do things differently if she could go back in time, Kail said that she doesn’t regret her children, but she does now see what mistakes she made.
“I don’t regret having any of them; I don’t regret having seven,” she said. “But…I had no business having any children with Chris. And truly no business having any children with Elijah either.”
Kail gave insight as to why she was OK with getting knocked up by Chris so quickly after her marriage to Javi went belly-up.
“At the point that I was married and divorced [from Javi], and then got pregnant right away [by Chris], I had no business doing that,” she said. “I should have waited until I was in a secure relationship, got married again if I wanted to do that, and then continued to have children.
“I made my life harder, their life harder; but I think during that time [I first got pregnant by Chris], I just wanted a family and I just wanted to be loved,” Kail continued. “I wanted to be a wife and I wanted to be all of those things.”
Kail admitted she “over-romanticized” her relationship situationship with Chris, but had high hopes for her relationship with Elijah.
“I do think the situation with Elijah would have turned out differently if certain things didn’t occur,” she stated.
(Kail is almost certainly talking about the fact that, earlier this year, a girl came forward and claimed that she slept with Elijah while he was on a cruise in 2024. After the girl made the claim on TikTok, Kail and Elijah split up shortly after.)
Kail added that she wishes she had conceived all of her kids with a sperm donor.
“If it was a donor, there wouldn’t be any broken homes,” she said. “They wouldn’t know any different other than my home…I actually created literal broken homes, not once, not twice, not three times, but literally four times.”
You can listen to the full episode of Coffee Convos below.
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Shocking all this just now occurred to her.
From my viewpoint she has made Baby Daddies a cottage industry. I mean think about it- all those men working hard for her- you don’t just drain one daddy of funds- you have a bunch!
And she totally acts like that was a plan!
Oh, I forgot that Chris was a rebound who got her knocked up. That is messed up…and yet she jumped into a new relationship with this Isaac guy quite fast after Elijah (who she has THREE kids with so the most with one baby daddy (ok, last two are twins but still))
Why don’t you practice what you preach? So this mean Jenelle has been single (but a new boo is coming for sure) longer now than Kail ever was?! What a weird world we live in…
STOP TRYING TO FIX THIS BY HOOKING UP WITH ALL THESE MEN THEN! You aren’t young anymore, you got Elliott young, ok, I give you that, maybe even Lincoln too…but one day you will have to break the pattern and refuse to do so. Noticing the pattern isn’t enough. And I doubt you even truly believe that and that it isn’t just for show as people are starting to call you out on what you made your kids go through. I only feel bad for the kids, not you.
Does anyone actually listen to this podcast?
Yet she already has a new man in her life?
Talks shit on her mum for being an addict. Buy Kail has a man addiction. Unless she is in a relationship she can’t deal with life.
THERAPY GIRL
She’s apparently in therapy, but must be seeing Ambers therapist cos it ain’t working!
Yes Kail, water is wet 🤦🏽♀️
JFC, she says this same thing every couple of years right before moving in her next victim, I mean baby daddy, and gets pregnant YET AGAIN.
Kail just stfu at this point, PLEASE. We’re exhausted 🙄
My friend has 5 kids to 4 baby daddies and she’s currently single but I’m pretty sure she’s not having any more kids but wouldn’t be surprised. I think that it’s better that they leave a relationship that’s not working then have their children grow up in a toxic home environment but maybe Kailyn should have got to know the people she was with better before getting pregnant. And she needs to realise by having a baby with them doesn’t mean they’re gonna change their behaviour.
JFC…this just occurred to her NOW?! I dare say she is trying really hard to out-dumb Jenelle. 🤦♀️ It’s really self-centeredness, but that’s even more sad.
Kale, therapy is way cheaper than having kids and won’t cheat on you.
Its about time you stopped thinking about yourself and actually see around you other people. You are a very selfish person or were and now u know and it’s hard to face facts but you can only try to do your best from this point on. hopefully.you are nicer to people and not so self centered.
I have really enjoyed watching kail grow. I really liked her when this all started but I felt like the money and the “fame” really went to her head and turned her into someone I didn’t like so much anymore. But she’s really growing and I love it!
had to agree, i’ve heard so many fans say that after they meet her they can’t believe she’s the same person they see on tv because she’s so much fun
So if you’re “so concerned” about your kids growing up in broken homes why don’t you let their fathers be present in their lives? I’m sure Chris (for all of his faults) would love to see his kids as he has said over & over again. Same with the others.
Oh wait you won’t do that because you use your kids as pawns in a game of control & don’t actually care about cultivating relationships. You’d rather badmouth the fathers & play the victim than make the actual change needed. GTFO.
Kail is a dysfunctional mess, but Chris is a deadbeat. No point in taking up for him. He’s a loser and loves playing games as much as Kail.
Javi and Jo see their kids and have shared custody. It’s Chris’s fault he doesn’t.
Chris has admitted to being physically abusive to Kailyn. Any mother would be weary letting an abuser around their kids. Also, he’s a deadbeat, so.
Kailyn has no problem with the other 3 fathers being a part of their kids lives and sharing custody.
This has now suddenly become a revelation???????
Ikr, like she just NOW gains this clarity in her 30s? Nah, I’m betting someone left this comment somewhere and it gave 🥬 this wild new self aware perception. She Definitely didn’t gain that clarity on her own lol
Someone refresh my memory. Why did she and Javi break up? I can’t remember, it has been so many years since I watched. I remember he really loved both her boys and tried to have a civil relationship with Jo.
Eh javi was controlling. Lots of fighting. He cheated on Lauren while she was in the house, I don’t think he was a prize either
Did he cheat on Kail?
They both cheated on each other, Kail was first (with Chris), and Javi cheated back by sneaking some random in their downstairs bathroom while she was asleep. True love ❤️
Thanks!! It was so long ago it is hard to remember all of the drama that happened.
That was Lauren Javi did that to, not Kail. It’s not really known if Javi cheated during the actual marriage with Kail.
She never tried to have a civil relationship with Jo. She did everything in her power to make it as hard as possible for him to parent Elliot. She was also horrid to each guy dumb enough to raw dog her and knock her up.
he was insecure af always starting fights with kail to ruin her time with friends or have a good coparenting relationship with jo, he also cheated on her and blamed her for a miscarriage they had and she filed for divorce before he deployed and they agreed not to say anything until after he came back but when he did he went around telling everyone she cheated and that’s where that narrative came from and even he admitted kail never actually cheated on him
I remember when Javi pitched an absolute fit over Jo and Kail sitting out on the front porch discussing their kid. Javi was pissed that she would have another man over their house when he wasn’t there, nevermind the fact that they were discussing their shared child and didn’t even go inside the house. Javi was insane.
I believe she was cheating on Javi with Chris but also Javi was VERY insecure and was probably cheating on her as well. I personally think he has a sex addiction.
Kail and Javi were struggling, contemplating divorce when they tried to have a “fix it” baby. Kail mis-carried and blamed Javi for not supporting her through that trauma. Shortly after, Javi deployed and they started the divorce process while he was oversees. They were still legally married when he got home but Kail was knocked up by Chris, which is technically cheating. It was always assumed that Javi had an emotional affair while he was deployed. They were both the problem in that marriage. I think that if they would have met 10 years later in life, they might have had a chance. I do believe they really loved each other.
She just realized this in the last week or two? Girl we been watching you do this and knowing it for years
How does she just realize this now? So sad considering smart people realize this after ONE failed baby daddy. Normal ppl feel guilty about this the first time, kail. Imagine it taking you S E V E N kids to realize?? After the damage is done x10000
She’s just realizing this now???
I feel bad for the kids especially the youngest five. At least the oldest two have solid dads
she ALWAYS does this – spends months, even years, ignoring anyone who gives her advice, preaches and acts like she’s the smartest person in the room. Then woop, now I realize in the last week or so. REALLY?
Classic 🥬
“Kail added that she wishes she had conceived all of her kids with a sperm donor”.
Great, so you’d prefer for them not to have a father so you don’t have to deal with your baby daddies. Stellar parenting, Kail
💯 it’s not about the kids, it’s about her.
I got to that part and started talking ish about her intelligence, morals, and common sense to my tablet. I mean what the hell? Girl needs MUCH therapy.
Exactly. The fact that she can’t have a long lasting relationship is on her. She’s the one with the problem. It’s not her baby daddies.
It’s very telling that she thinks the essence of a “broken home” is shared custody. She’s had little experience with “unbroken” homes, she doesn’t know what that would look like.
She has two.kids with Chris to spite Javi. She should have kept her legs closed and worked on her marriage. She’s a horrible person.
Javi was a nut job. That’s not all on her.
Javi served our country, what did you do?
Those two things aren’t mutually exclusive.
You can serve our country and still be a tool. It doesn’t automatically make you a saint. Ever heard of Nathan, Swamp Queen’s ex? My husband served and not every single person he served with was an angel. Hope that helps. 👌
so just because someone is a veteran means they’re exempt from being called out on their wrong doings??
Anita is nuts too. So….
lol
I never snuck through a basement window. Or f”ked some random skank on a bathroom floor.
Ted Bundy worked for a coalition in Seattle writing pamphlets for women and how they can stay “safe.” Does that make him a “good” guy??
Jo was verbally abusive. Javi wanted her knocked up in the kitchen. Chris was physically and verbally abusive. Elijah cheated on her. Now she is with a new man. Girl, stop going from man to man. Go to therapy. Be single. Enjoy your babies. You have major daddy/broken home issues and have created the exact same issues with your children. You have maintained the cycle. I hope your kids break the cycle. Good luck with all the crazy you created.
And she is still trying to destroy all her kids fathers, she’s a nasty hoe!
i like kail but even i know she still didn’t learn a lesson from this and will continue to create more broken homes and yes ik her tubes are supposedly tied but cmon this is the same girl who’s building her millionth “forever home”, she has the means to get them untied for any guy whenever she wants
I dislike this broad.
Don’t blame Chris. You chased him and thought getting pregnant was going to keep him.
Don’t blame Elmer. You took in a stranger and paid his way thinking he really wanted you, too.
At least Chris refused to be bought by you. And that’s why you don’t like him.
She didn’t chase Chris, she STALKED Chris.
Yeah because Chris who has admitted to being physically abusive is completely innocent…
When did I call him innocent?
One common denominator: Kail Lowry. Go to therapy instead of your “fans” for validation.