Chris Lopez says his baby mama Kail Lowry has taken out a new protective order against him, while also claiming that his custody court battle with the Teen Mom 2 star recently saw his time with their sons Lux and Creed dramatically reduced.
In a series of Instagram Stories posted on Thursday that tore into Kail, her fiancé Elijah Scott and the Delaware family court system, Chris made more serious accusations, while also clarifying his previous posts, which claimed that Kail tried to throw away their kids’ Christmas presents from him, and more.
Chris accused Kail of “lying, hypocrisy” and “manipulation” of the system, but also pointed his frustration at the family court system, particularly in a county that he claims Kail prefers to have their hearings in, due to it allegedly favoring mothers over fathers. Chris also accused Kail of lying about her income, restricting his phone access to Lux and Creed and much more.
Here, The Ashley breaks down the claims Chris is making about Kail and their court battle, which he revealed recently resulted in him losing custody time with the kids and dealing with a new PFA (Protection From Abuse) order that Kail recently filed against him. (To clarify: this is a new PFA and not the one Kail filed on Chris back in 2019, which, in his new post he admitted that Kail was justified in filing.)
On the new PFA Kail recently filed:
Chris reported that there is now a PFA order against him, which he claims was filed by Kail after a recent incident in which Chris grabbed Kail’s phone.
“[The] order was ordered against me despite no evidence of a pattern of abuse,” Chris insisted, though he did admit to taking Kail’s phone. “The claim was based on an incident where I took a phone, returned it and caused no harm.”
Chris stated that Kail has participated in the “ongoing harassment” of him— something he claims to have evidence of— but the court didn’t take it into consideration.
As ‘Teen Mom 2’ fans know, Chris was arrested in 2019 for violence against Kail. The ‘Teen Mom 2’ star took out a PFA against Chris at that time, and he was arrested in 2020 for violating it. In the years since, Kail has spoken out about the violence she endured at Chris’ hand, stating that Chris allegedly tried to choke and kill her. (Chris denied trying to kill Kail but did admit to choking her and getting physically violent with her.)
During his Instagram rant on Thursday, Chris admitted that he did, indeed, deserve to have a PFA taken out against him for that incident.
“I’ve always been open and honest about the PFA that was granted against me in New Castle County in 2019,” he wrote. “That ruling was based on actual abuse and, though I’m not proud of it, I owned up to my actions. It was a very dark time in my life, involving a toxic relationship with a very negative person. I took responsibility for what I did and I accepted that the PFA was warranted. I made mistakes and I faced the consequences for them.”
Chris claimed the recent incident with the phone was “entirely different.”
“There’s no evidence of abuse, no pattern of harmful behavior,” he wrote. “…yet a PFA was still granted against me. How does that warrant the same level of protection as actual abuse [I caused previously]. Where is the fairness in that?”
“The system is supposed to protect people from genuine harm, not weaponize PFAs against fathers trying to stay involved in their childrens’ lives,” he continued, adding that the PFA has hindered his time with the kids.
“…The Kent County Family Court system has failed to distinguish between actual abuse and baseless claims, and that failure is damaging to both me and my children,” Chris added.
On Kail not allowing his to speak to his kids:
In one post, Chris stated that Kail and Elijah do not allow Lux and Creed to speak freely to him.
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“My kids were in Spain [with Kail] for Thanksgiving. I still called them,” Chris wrote. “An individual hung up our conversation because I told my kids they are allowed to talk to me and if [Kail and Elijah] are telling you no, they are wrong. Because my son told me he’s asked to call me in the past and they say no.”
In another post, Chris stated that his phone time with the kids was reduced at the most-recent court hearing.
“I went from being able to talk to my children almost daily to being restricted to just once a week for 30 minutes between 6 p.m. and 6:30 p.m.” Chris wrote.
On his time with Lux & Creed being reduced:
Chris claimed that a judge in Kent County, Delaware (which Chris stated Kail prefers to deal with over nearby New Castle County, due to Kent’s alleged bias towards mothers in family court cases) recently reduced his parenting time.
“New Castle Family Court had given me a fair and just hearing, granting me parenting time during the school year from Thursday after school to Sunday at 5 p.m.” Chris wrote. “Kent County reduced that time to Fridays at 6 p.m. to Sunday 6 p.m.”
Chris stated that the reduction in parenting was blamed on the kids having attendance issues while in his care, something he denied.
“In fact the mother has had more absences during her time in the last two years than I have. Yet I’m the one being penalized? How is that fair?” Chris wrote.
On Kail reportedly lying about her income in regard to child support:
Chris also made a serious accusation that Kail once lied about how much money she brought in so that she could get child support from Chris.
“I was kept away from my child and then put on child support — despite the significant disparity in income between myself and my child’s mother,” he wrote. “She even lied about her income during the process.”
(Although Chris didn’t provide a timeline as to when this act allegedly occurred, it appears that it was before Creed’s birth in 2020, as Chris only talks about having a singular child with Kail. At that time, Kail was still making a hefty paycheck for appearing on ‘Teen Mom 2.’)
“I still signed the agreement because I wanted to see my child and felt I had no other option,” Chris wrote of the child support agreement.
Chris stated that Kail later tried to remove him from paying child support, but the courts wouldn’t allow it.
“Now, she continues to use the fact that I’m on child support as a form of control,” Chris claimed. “But there’s no accountability or recognition of her contradictions in court.”
On his previous claim that Kail tried to throw away their kids’ Christmas presents:
During a previous Instagram rant, Chris claimed that Kail attempted to throw away the presents Lux and Creed got from him for Christmas.
“Never be so miserable that after not seeing or speaking to your children in 17 days the first thing you do is try to throw away their Christmas presents in front of a police officer and kids,” Chris wrote on Instagram last week.
When Kail was asked about this alleged incident in a comment on one of her recent Instagram posts, she denied there was any truth to Chris’ claim.
“Why did you try to throw away your kids Christmas gifts?” one person wrote.
“I would never do something like that,” Kail replied.
During the latest rant, Chris gave more details about the alleged event, which apparently did not actually include Kail trying to trash the gifts, as he previously stated.
“If I didn’t run back outside she most definitely would of never took the boys’ stuff they got for Christmas because she dug through the bag took out my sons’ jackets and tried to tell the officer to take the rest of the stuff,” Chris wrote.
Kail has yet to respond to Chris’ latest claims.
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Sooooo she didn’t throw away the Christmas gifts? He just accused her of it publicly because he thinks that she would have (but didn’t). Sounds about right for this attention-seeking deadbeat.
Kail is no prize. She’s shown she can be petty and vindictive. But, this guy is proving to everyone that he harasses her online, admits to grabbing her phone out of her hand, telling their kid she was acting wrong, and complains about paying any amount of money to support his children, and still claims that he’s been treated unfairly. It’s laughable that anyone defends him. He’s a deadbeat who doesn’t want to financially support his own children and can’t get them to school one day a week.
Kail’s income has nothing to do with how child support is calculated so that point is completely moot. It’s based on his earnings, the percent the court feels he owes to his children. Just because the mother could cover it herself doesn’t mean she should-you helped make them, you help provide for them.
Yes, but court also takes into account the percentage of something each parent pays for, based on their income. So for example, kail would pay 75% of the cost of school, Chris 25%, as based on their differences in income
I’m sorry but if Kail can’t even get along with females like Leah Messer and Vee Rivera, it’s pretty obvious after a thousand messy relationships and her petty character, that kail is 100% THE PROBLEM. That doesn’t mean Chris is any sort of stand up guy. But for a woman with 3 kids and 2 baby dads prior to Chris showing up, a mature woman SHOULD know how to handle a break up followed by coparenting. So many people back kail like she poops our gold. They’re called simps.
I don’t like Kail and we all know she abuses the court system, but Chris, dude, the “pattern of abuse” was your ORIGINAL restraining order. That’s what the court was looking at when they granted the new one. Poor kids, two idiot parents that seem to have only one brain cell to share between them.
Right? lol is he for real when he says there’s no pattern of abuse?? 🙄
Kailyn isn’t even on TV anymore so why does he keep putting all their custody drama on social media? He also has a habit of lying. He literally lied about her throwing away Christmas presents last week. So why would anyone believe what he says?? Also, I am so over men complaining about having to pay child support. They are your kids. You are financially responsible for them. If you don’t have 50/50 custody, you SHOULD expect to be paying child support.
He keeps putting it on social media because it’s the only way he’s able to make money without actually putting effort into a real job.
I didn’t even finish reading because it got to be too ludicrous. And the court doesn’t reduce time with children unless there is proof of good reason. The shenanigans between them had Kail looking guilty in the beginning, mostly based on her past. The more this grown man child speaks the more he makes Kail look like an Angel.
Chris is a bum. Always has been. Always will be.
WGAF? They are both trash.
Just feel bad for the kids.
This guy…
1. He admitted to abusing her in the past, frequently harasses her on the internet, and then grabbed her personal property off her. That’s a pattern of abuse. 2. I work in a school and the attendance record is the attendance record, there’s no fudging that. 3. It’s hard to lie about income to the court when you are required to submit bank statements, pay stubs, and tax returns. 4. Just because she makes more money, doesn’t mean he doesn’t have to financially support his children. Especially when they’re with their mother more. 5. He was talking ish to his kids about their mother while on the phone. Umm hello, that’s for grown ups to discuss, the child shouldn’t be involved. So yep, he lost his privileges and needs to be supervised.
…is a doofus! He caused this himself and then again went online and bashed her. Sounds like he wants to lose more.
Nah, kail is one of them people with a power kink. Why you think she never fux with anyone on her level? She gets off on control and scandal, she just lost AF.
How does she have time to get to court with all them kids?
How come he can’t get his kids to school when he only has 2?
Because she has a nanny raising them.
She has a nanny that takes care of all the kids. She is a POS.
I love how Chris can claim there hasn’t been a pattern of abusive behavior by him but also admits to the previous PFA that was taken out against him was warranted due to his violent behavior….
That’s a pattern you idiot. There was no reason for him putting his hands on Kail or her phone.
At this point if I was Kail, I would be petitioning the courts for supervised visitation for Lux and Creed as well.
this guy again? He doesn’t want those kids, he wants the damn attention.
Chris is the hostile one always trashing her online so I don’t blame Kail for getting a protective order against him. He chose to have a second child with Kail knowing the problems he was already having with seeing his other son.
It was about time she got a new restraining order. All Chris does is running his mouth about her on social media EVERY DAY. That’s harassment plain and simple.
Kail trashes him on social media and her podcast. Same difference…both are trash.
Well kail can do as she pleases, when referring to anything kail related, always remember that she is absolutely free of any sort of moral code and no behavior is deemed unacceptable. In the world of kail simps, only the men are in the wrong.
The absence comment makes me LOL. Based on the schedule he gave he would have only had the kids for one school day a week. So if Kail has more absences…duh she has those kids 80% of all school days and kids get sick etc. 🤦🏻♀️
Say what you will about Kail, but I can understand why a judge would grant another PFA in this situation. There is a history of admitted abuse. He grabs her phone and she feels threatened. With no past, not PFA worthy but with their past…I get it.
idgaf how much yall hate kail but there’s a reason why chris doesn’t have 50/50 custody of their kids in a 50/50 state and jo and javi have 50/50 custody
Jo and Javi are great dads and look how hard she made it for them .. your comment speaks for itself 🤣🤣
Literally no one thinks that Kail is an easy person. She burns every bridge. That doesn’t mean Chris isn’t a deadbeat. So yeah, the comment speaks for itself.
Look how hard she made it for them and a judge still granted them both 50/50 custody. Your comment speaks for itself
Yes Chris and you procreated with her. You’re a problem too. And this ranting looks really bad to a judge
Omg Chris. Shut. Up.
How is his book selling?
He wrote a book? 😂😂
It would be great if they’d both finally realize that everyone involved probably hates their lives because of those two.
I can’t stand Chris, but Kail absues the court system with all the PFAs, especially for somebody that we’ve seen put hands on husbands/boyfriends repeatedly. Women that do stuff like this are the reason real victims aren’t believed.
No she doesn’t he got arrested for hitting her. So how is that abusing the system he won’t stop harassing her.
And she also got arrested for physical violence toward him. She makes things really super hard, knowing he could never fight her in court or do anything about it, and then plays victim. She is mentally abusive. I don’t even care about Chris. Couldn’t care less. But I despise a woman who behaves like Kailyn Lowry does.
I can PROMISE you, women who are afraid of a man, don’t barge into his house and attack him. Promise. If he was any threat to her, she wouldn’t have chased him for so long, provoked him non stop, and she especially wouldn’t voluntarily engage in physical altercations with him. She is and always has been an extremely abusive person. She hates that someone finally doesn’t kiss her feet. Too many people have her on a pedestal and finally, someone doesn’t. An abuser like kail cannot deal with that, she must have all control at times, no excuses.
*All control at ALL times
Agree, 100%. The innocence act she pulls all the time is infuriating, can’t stand when she plays the victim. That twit KNOWS what’s she’s doing. She will take away as much custody as she can then complain he never sees his kids. I believe him when he said the cops heard his kid saying he wanted to stay with him, not her. She’s hard to watch in the scenes/content we have access to…imagine what we don’t see. This is probably the breakup she was most bitter about, and she’s going to cause this man problems until those kids are 18 because as usual it’s about HER, not about the kids. She is ridiculously self-absorbed, controlling, manipulative, & tone-deaf. Her current BF (fiance? whatever the hell you call that “relationship”) is there for the money, no other way he would tolerate her bullish, self-obsessed behavior. And he better be watching how she’s handling all these ex’s or he’s gonna F around and find out…just like all the others did 😯😂
I 100% agree on everything you just said! Her and Chris are on the same level, both are toxic, abusive trash. People act like she’s a great person just because her kids aren’t being abused and neglected. If it hadn’t been for MTV, I have no doubt she would have become Suzy 2.0.
He literally admitted abusing her and that the PFA was valid….. like?
Yes, the previous PFA on Chris, not this one. But she’s put them on others besides Chris, like Javi when is was unwarranted. She’s also been the abuser several times herself, so basically she thinks she can hit a man and it’s fine but it’s abuse if the tables are turned, which makes them both trash.
Javi crawled into her house via basement window. That is creepy Af. I feel like everyone gives Javi a pass because he’s a “good” person. He is not at all. He cheated on his gf. I doubt it was the first time.
He also tried to entice Kail to meet him behind a dumpster in a parking lot or whatever.
Javi gives me the creeps. He’s not some angel because he’s military.
Didn’t it come out that it was still legally his home as well, that he had every right to be in and she wasn’t letting him get his stuff or something along those lines? I don’t remember exactly. Doesn’t really matter since she’s actually assaulted Javi repeatedly, so climbing through a window he still owned is no reason for a PFA in comparison. Javi is shitty in a lot of ways, but Kail was 100% the abusive one in that relationship and she had a lot of audacity to file a PDA on him when he had a lot more reason to file one on her.
No. It wasn’t Javi’s house at the time. Two wrongs don’t make a right. I’m not justifying Kail hitting anyone. I’m just saying that Javi was pretty weird also.
She did Javi so dirty. That man gave her the world and even played a great role in her son’s life. But she was too busy running the streets to be a decent wife and then turned the world against him like she was the victim. Sickening behavior. It might’ve taken him some time to recover, as it does most people who deal with an abusive partner like kail, but I’m so glad he got a good woman like Lauren and his happy ending.
Yeah, he got a good woman like Lauren…. And then he cheated on her multiple times…. Including cheating with her friend in their home while she was upstairs…. But yes, good for Javi. Doesn’t matter that they both cheated….Kail bad, Javi good. lmfao and your comments aren’t even a little bit sexist
She also admitted on camera to being the one to initiate the physical assault between her and Jo, which I believe was her hitting him and him trying to pus her away and then got a PFA on Jo.
Ah yes, Kailyn Lowry and her infamous “protection orders” that are done from spite.
It’s really dumb that they’re giving a restraining order to this dumb bitch, but my best friend who’s been stalked for over a year by her, an ex hasn’t been able to get an arrow against her ex.For actual reasons, when lots of evidence of abuse and rape.. unlike Kail who’s just a bitter bitch
Your trauma is showing.
And projecting
He put his hands on jail wtf are you taking about
So if course she gets a restraining order there is a history of abuse be mad at your state that doesn’t take your friends situation seriously but don’t down someone else’s abuse because competing regarding that is just sick.
Moron there is a police report and tons of evidence of Chris’s abuse where have you been you are sick. Seek help.
UH, 6 up and 19 down, looks like you are the moron who is sick and needs help. Get lost.
First off, this dude admited to strangling her in the past. Statistically, when strangulation is involved, the probability of murder is much higher. This guy is so creepy, he obviously has an axe to grind and he seems like a total narcissist.
Your friend also deserves the restraining order.
Both things can be true.
If she didn’t have all those kids I would swear she was a man.
When you’re so abusive that you come across as masculine .. 😂
When you stand up for yourself, but you’re a woman, so people bash you for not quietly taking your lumps. I’d f up any mf that put his hands on me. He’s gotta sleep sometime…
Oh the simping for kail truly is disguting. For anyone to EVER claim kail has EVER taken anything “quietly” immediately discredits anything they say. She is always the loudest one in the room and she is always the one handing out the “lumps” and so many people just want to lick her toilet bowl and call their nasty fetish normal. 🤢🤢
Kail is ECSTATIC that a man finally put a hand on her, since all the other times she was lying and abused the law to gain control over her victims. She thrived on Chris because with him, she was going face to face with someone abusive like her, instead of the slew of men/women that allowed her to dominatrix freely about.