After years of publicly feuding with his baby mama Kail Lowry, Chris Lopez finally received some validation this week from an unlikely source– Kail’s ex-husband and second baby daddy, Javi Marroquin– though Chris insists that Javi’s words won’t ultimately improve his own strained co-parenting situation with Kail. In a series of posts on Tuesday, Chris reacted to Javi’s online dragging of their shared baby mama.
As The Ashley told you on Monday, Javi took to Instagram Live to fire off an unfiltered tirade at Kail, during which he called out the former Teen Mom 2 star for having an alleged secret boyfriend and for allegedly neglecting her parental duties for their son, Lincoln.
Amid his lengthy (and at one point, emotional) rant, Javi accused Kail of crafting “a fake persona” of a good parent on social media despite allegedly falling short in that department and for allegedly planning to move her new boyfriend into her Delaware home just months after ending things with her fiancé and fourth baby daddy, Elijah Scott. (As fans know, Kail shares eldest son Isaac with Jo Rivera; son Lincoln with Javi; sons Creed and Lux with Chris; and twins Valley and Verse and son Rio with Elijah.)
At one point during his Live, Javi also surprisingly told viewers that Chris has been speaking the truth about their shared baby mama in his (many) social media rants about her over the years.
“Everything Chris has ever said has always been right,” Javi stated, before going on to reveal that anytime he has communicated with Chris, Kail “always f**king calls me and bitches me out.”
“I just want you guys to know what we– not even just me– but what [all of Kail’s baby daddies] have to deal with,” Javi continued. “Chris is the only one who’s ever said anything.”
In response to Javi’s comments, Chris posted a snarky photo to his Instagram Story on Monday, before going on to tell followers that, although his past comments about Kail have been validated and “people are now seeing the truth,” it doesn’t change what he’s “been living.”
“ … Let’s be real…. That validation doesn’t undo anything,” Chris wrote. “It doesn’t erase the pain. It doesn’t stop the damage. It doesn’t fix the nights I lost sleep. It doesn’t fix what me and my kids have to deal with… the stuff people don’t see. The stress, the emotional toll, the moments that no camera or post ever catches.”
Chris– who, in January, accused someone of calling the police on him to report that he was harassing them by posting about a certain custody court case online– went on to reveal that he and his children are “still going through it” and that he isn’t optimistic that the latest (alleged) developments involving Kail will lead to any real change when it comes to him “fighting for [his] kids.”
“ … I’m still dealing with the same system that ignored all this when it mattered,” he wrote. “And even with proof, even with the truth out in the open, there’s a real chance the court still won’t see it for what it is because when you’re a father fighting for your kids, the truth doesn’t always get a fair hearing.
“So no,” Chris continued. “Validation isn’t justice. It’s not healing. It’s just confirmation of what I already knew. I’ve been standing on truth.”
As The Ashley previously told you, while giving his take on what had transpired in the latest court battle against Kail, Chris claimed in January that Kail had filed a new Protection From Abuse (PFA) order against him for allegedly “harassing and posting about them online.” Though Chris has admitted to being physically abusive towards Kail in the past and stated that her previous PFA against him was warranted, he insisted that the latest one had been filed without merit and accused her of “abusing the system.”
Chris also alleged at the time that Kail, whom he never mentioned by name, prefers to have their court dates in a certain county that she feels gives preference to mothers over fathers. He also noted that Kail and her (now former) fiancé Elijah had allegedly gotten physical with his sons and refused to let the boys speak to him when they wanted to. He also accused Kail of once lying about her income during the child support process, among other things.
On Tuesday, Chris returned to social media for a Q&A that was largely focused on his current situation with Kail, during which he revealed that, in order to “remain positive and level-minded,” he goes to the gym, prays and focuses on the “end goal”; however, he said he still struggles “really bad,” claiming that May was a particularly rough month for him.
Chris was also asked about his relationship with Javi, to which he said that, despite the two nearly coming to blows the first time they saw each other, they’ve “come a long way” over the years.
” … Now, when we cross paths there’s mutual respect…communication…even laughs,” he wrote. “It’s different now because we’re not in the same toxic space we once were. We’re not being pulled into chaos by someone who benefits from division. We’ve both grown, matured, and realized the only thing that truly matters is the kids. And when the focus is on the children…not drama…not ego…not the past, everything runs smoother.”
Chris was also asked by one of his followers if a part of him sympathizes with Kail, to which he claimed he cannot.
“I can’t sympathize with someone who moves the way they do,” Chris replied. “Someone who shows no remorse, no accountability, no real care for anyone but herself, who can hurt people, lie, manipulate and walk around like it’s justified like the truth doesn’t matter.
“I can’t feel bad for that,” he continued. “I can’t respect that and I damn sure can’t sympathize with it.”
Kail has yet to respond to either Javi or Chris’s recent comments.
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This goes without saying but if this is true she’s an idiot. Why date with all those kids??? 3 babies???? Sounds so stupid and trashy to me. Focus on your kids.
Kail definitely puts men above her children and definitely needs to fix her mind and heart so that she doesn’t always need to be in a relationship. That being said, Javi and Chris have less than no leg to stand on to gripe about anything she really does because they have done the same and worse. All these adults are awful and it will be a miracle if the kids end up okay.
Chris and Javi aren’t any Bette than Kailyn. They all suck and are crappy people. Chris admitted to physically abusing Kailyn. He has been a deadbeat and lied about Kailyn throwing away their kid’s Christmas presents. I don’t believe anything any of them say.
Is the Ashley going to write an article or comment on the latest controversy about Catelyn and Tyler texting minors? I’m really curious to see what her insight and thoughts are.
Ooooo this is news to me and sounds like the tea is piping hot
At some point pretty soon Lincoln will be able to choose who he wants to live with. It IS complicated by the fact that Javi is moving out of state, though. I mean he is choosing to leave his son; let’s be real. So maybe Lincoln can’t choose now but probably by high school age. I think Isaac wants to live mostly with Jo but he seems to be parentified by Kail and may feel “guilty” if he moves. First and foremost Kail does not want to pay child support and I’m surprised she hasnt had to considering she makes much more than any of the fathers. Even 50/50 it would be normal to give tbe other parent some amount of child support if there’s a big descrepancy in income.
Wow, Chris must be borrowing some AI bots from Amber, because there are way too many people acting okay with him repeatedly abusing young children and trainwreck women.
Chris has abused kids? I’m genuinely asking as I hadn’t heard that before.
It would be a little different if Chris only had one child with Kail but no he went back for number two. Shame on them both.
Chris must have all his hood rat hoochie mamas down voting posts. In decent society, he will always be a shit loser parent that talked more than be a man and handle his business.
Yeah, she’s over on Reddit claiming people are racist for calling out Chris’ abuse and lack of providing anything but sperm for the kids, too. Pathetic.
Well Chris, the fact that Kail’s a POS doesn’t negate the fact that you are a POS, abusive deadbeat so f*ck validation
For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?”
I enjoy the Ashley’s articles, I really do. But the group of people who come into this platform from behind their phones, hiding every last one of their own mistakes as they throw some of the nastiest and most hateful dirt on anyone (but mostly just any man they can dig their satanic claws into) is truly to a sickening level of misandry and entitlement. Sure now and then if the article is about just a female, these venomous vipers MUST spew their hatred so the hate must go on. But that same woman they hate on is in an article the next day with a male, suddenly the female is a damsel in distress and they are there to protect their image from LITERALLY any man in the article, who is suddenly the worst and scummiest and lowest form of life. Ashley should end the comment section because if there is anyone else like me, the commenters alone are so toxic and so disgusting that I have to fully exit the Ashley’s fan base. May God have mercy on your souls because He will judge you all just as you judge others.
@grape ~ you obviously aren’t a regular reader here. no one really ‘capes’ for ‘damsels in distress’ ~ it’s pretty much equal opportunity scorn and disdain for ALL idiots.
also, no need to announce your departure. #buhbye 👋🏻👋🏻
finally…you okay, bruh? you seem a bit…agitated. 🤣😹
Kail sucks and Chris sucks too. We’re equal opportunity around here.
Thankfully there isn’t many ppl like you. And it’s good of you to write your bat shit crazy messages like that, it gives us sane ppl something funny to laugh at. 👍
So don’t read the comment section? You have the power to not scroll 😉
YOU HAVE NO RIGHT to tell people what they can or cannot talk about…………..The best thing about Ashley’s page is that we all get to truly say what is on our minds…..That is what makes this country the best in the world…….This isn’t the USSR………….Lighten up.
Poor OG Isaac probably feels the need to be home and be the protector of his younger siblings.
I’ve always believed Chris. I believe Javi. Jo wanted Isaac to be with him too because of Kail’s instability. Isaac has also called his own mom out on things. Lincoln is getting bigger and he will be forming his own opinions. Lux & Creed as well. Malik and Elija’s kids are still young but eventually will see the mess their mother is doing.
Kail will take control of the narrative, post about how much of a hands on mom she is with her daily “Good morning instagram” bs. Vee luckily got out of that mess. Natalie as well.
I’m 99% sure the new dude has been a back burner “friend” so she will state that there’s no issue with him being around the kids 🙄
Chris, you’re still a deadbeat. Yes, Kail is a dysfunctional mess of a person whose revolving door of men has damaged her kids. Meanwhile, you still won’t get an actual job or do what you need to do to take care of your kids. Javi has always been an involved dad and has provided for his kids. So, even though he has effed up royally with Lauren, he has way more credibility as a parent.
Kail makes her own choices. She behaves the way she does because she chooses to. I’m surprised they’re saying anything with all those NDAs she has people sign.
Once again with the black and white thought processes.
Yes. 2 things can be correct at once.
Amazing, I know.
Kail is a dick.
And Chris is a dick.
Just like
Jenelle is a dick.
And David is a dick.
Exactly!!
@myname ~ IKR? the utter lack of gray area/two things can be true at once thinking is astounding. 🙄🤷🏼♀️
this isn’t a case of ‘team kail’, ‘team chris’ or ‘team javi’ ~ it’s ‘team they all suck’.
javi and chris blabbing is AMAZING, though. 👀🍿
Team “they all suck!” for sure over here. Javi is maybe the least trash of this trio, but he’s still very trashy. He’s just right to be concerned about different men traipsing in and out of his son’s life.
And same goes for Janelle and the swirl of chaotic trash characters in her life with Lurch, Kenny Lee, Nathan, Anastasia and May. They’re ALL garbage people through and through although Anastasia did not deserve Nathan’s abuse despite ignoring glaring red flags. Maybe David, Nathan and Janelle are a higher level of garbage than the rest, but all complete useless low lives.
@Grape – these clowns open themselves up for harsh criticism for their trash behavior and lifestyles because they have chosen to make their living in the public eye. I imagine most of us on here have made some regrettable choices, but probably not as severe as these clowns and our livelihood isn’t based on exposing ourselves and our families. We just come here for entertaining cringes and laughs at the expense of ridiculously trashy people who constantly make piss poor life choices even though they have the resources to live less chaotic lives.
In the end these are dads worried about their children. As anyone would be with the revolving bedroom door. Boys are sa too. Kail often leaves these kids with people that aren’t even kin to them. That brings risk. Issac(son) gas said she has too many men and children. The kids get close to these men then they aren’t around anymore. Kail should give these dads more time with their kids. The system gives dads minimal time.
At what point is the court going to hold Kail accountable for abusing the system? She has filed a PFA on every single boyfriend she has ever had. That is just statistically impossible to have that many boyfriends who are abusing you. She is clearly using the system to manipulate and get back at these guys when she doesn’t get her way. She should be in trouble for that. That’s not what PFA’s are for. Those same boyfriends go on to have other long term healthy relationships with people with no abuse. So who’s the real abuser here?
Actually, a lot of women tend to attract men who are abusive, or fall into the same situation (for many reasons) multiple times. It is NOT statistically impossible to have every boyfriend you have had be abusive – that just means she does not know how to pick them, or she doesn’t understand the red flags in the beginning well enough to leave. Or perhaps she picks men like that subconsciously so she can abuse them back and not feel guilty about it. Who knows. But it’s very possible, just not normal.
I am aware that there are some women who are attracted to unhealthy relationships. My point was that she filed a PFA on both Joe and Javi, both of which have gone on to have healthy long term relationships with no reported abuse. At this point, it appears she is abusing the system to manipulate and get back at these men. I’ve seen it happen time and time again and it’s disgusting and she should be held accountable for it. She is taking valuable resources away from people who are actually in very dangerous situations and actually do need the protection. She has the financial means to go hire a security guard if she’s that scared but she is choosing to file PFA’s because that’s is more hurtful. This is a pattern with her and it’s disgusting.
I can get behind Kail being sketchy all along & getting exposed for this, but there’s no world in which Chris isn’t the absolute worst. It’s funny enough (though he’s right) for Javi to talk about ‘morals’, but no one needs Chris-runner-up-loser’s opinion, too. At least Javi is involved in his kid’s activities and goes to WORK. I’m on board for this exposure, but I seriously can’t support Chris’s behavior because he only want to dig at her. It’s not about his boys.
Chris needs to understand that just because he’s correct in his musings on Kail, it doesn’t make him any less of a shit bird. Maybe if he was able to act right & formulate his thoughts better on social media, people would take him more seriously.
This time around his written statements actually seemed coherent. Then I realized everyone is using ChatGPT now.
EVERYONE. You’re witnessing the downfall of society and critical thinking which is scary af.
The shit winds are coming!
It was a trailer park boys joke. Apparently not many people watch the show 🙃
Upvote for you lol
christopher you’re still a loser
Chris definitely has been manipulating, abusing and harassing Kail over the years. A judge looked at his “evidence” regarding the physical abuse of his son and said it was normal parenting and correction. Chris still posted a lot that his son was being physically abused. It was about being pushed down on a chair and Chris has admitted in the past he uses physical punishment on the boys.
Javi saying Chris was always right about everything is not a good look for him.
I get that he is worried, angry and upset. Hope he corrects it and says what he really meant.
I don’t get why Kail does to her kids what her mom did to her, boyfriend over her kids.
This new guy shouldn’t be playing step daddy weeks after their previous step daddy left.
Chris Lopez, if you are reading this, please know that I ALWAYS believed you. Long before Javis speech. I’ve always seen Kail for who she is. Shes always had fans eating out of her hands and I don’t even get why. Shes a classic bully who pulls in crowds and turns them against the ones shes victimizing. When it comes to people like kail, I never doubt the underdog. Ever.
he’s still not gonna pick you pookie ❤️
I am a married woman of ten years with three kids. A random woman who made a comment on an article. You’re seriously weird as hell.
I don’t think it was a matter of whether or not people believed Chris. It’s about the fact that Chris at one point was ready to sign his rights to one of his sons away. Kind of makes people believe you aren’t much of a “wanting to be around” for my kids type of a parent. When you have climbed through someone’s window and scared the kids because you were pissed at Kail makes you look like a psycho. The fact that you have committed domestic violence makes me not like you and question everything.
I’m not a fan of Chris, Kail or Javi to be honest. But what I can say about Javi is that he truly loves his kids. He has been there from Day 1 and continues to be there no matter how miserable Kail makes it. He seems like a good and consistent father. That’s why I pay more attention to what Javi says than Chris.
I personally don’t hold it against him. I’d truly have a nervous break down if I had to raise a kid with this woman. He messed up, he said things he shouldn’t have, and things he clearly grew up and realized he didn’t mean. We’ve seen kail abuse more than one man and mistreat many people and she always claims to be the victim. I will never condone a man hurting a woman but we will also never know the truth of what has gone on between those two. Her word is not credible when it comes to her relationships, at the very very least.
You say you don’t condone a man hurting a woman and yet that’s exactly what you’re doing. It’s gone beyond words with Chris (which in itself can be abusive) , he’s also gotten physically violent with Kail and that’s not just coming from her, he’s admitted to it as well. Don’t like Kail, I don’t care but don’t ignore what Chris has done either.
Just because you abuse doesn’t automatically make your baby mama a good mom
No one here called Kail a good mom.
100% agreed and spot on.
Perfectly said, Gemma. I totally agree
Exactly. Javi has done some very, very bad things to Lauren, but he has way more credibility than Chris. And he can provide a more stable home to his son than Kail or Chris can for his sons.