Kail Lowry is feuding with baby daddy Chris Lopez (again) after Chris allegedly cut their son Lux’s hair without her knowledge (again)– something Chris has since defended on social media.
The former Teen Mom 2 star– who shares sons Lux and Creed with Chris, as well as five other kids by three other dads– slammed her third baby daddy’s recent actions last week on TikTok Live while refuting his claim that she was forbidding him from speaking to their sons. Kail also accused Chris on TikTok Live of having “a distorted perception of reality” and called him out for multiple things, including owing her more than $25,000 in child support.
At one point during the Live, Kail also fired off at Chris for allegedly shaving Lux’s head “against his will”– and without her knowledge– claiming that the unwanted shearing left their son in tears.
“ … he came home crying to me and said that you told him that I don’t take care of [his hair] so you shaved it,” Kail said, before pulling out a binder of “receipts” for various haircare products/maintenance she’s purchased for Lux’s hair. “ … let’s go to the hair tab right here, OK? Let’s go to the hair tab. This is a list and it’s $5,688 worth of maintenance for his locks, OK?”
Kail stated that Chris’ other baby mama (whom Kail claims Chris lives with currently) does hair for a living, and that Chris should have asked her to redo Lux’s locs.
“Instead [he] just shaved it off and didn’t say a word,” Kail said. “I saw it all over Facebook but you didn’t say a word to me. First of all, Lux has had that hair his whole life. So, in my opinion, my eight-year-old getting his hair shaved would be like a turning point for him. Maybe like a milestone. I do feel like I should have been included in that. I should have been able to decide if I wanted to be there. And I also think that we should have taken him to an actual barber.
“If we’re going to take our kids to go get their hair done and have shape-ups and fades, locs twisted, and this that and the third, we should take them to professionals. We should take them to an actual barber that had clean clippers, sharp clippers. Not you, leaving a scab all the way across his forehead,” Kail added.
According to @realityteewith.e on TikTok, Kail later reiterated in a comment that Lux “didn’t want his hair cut.”
Chris went on to respond to Kail’s haircut claims, insisting to his social media followers that when he would take Lux to get his hair done, “they”– presumably Kail– would take it out.
“So I just got to the point where it’s like, I’m not doing it no more,” Chris said. “Since you got a problem with people doing it, you take care of it. And if you can’t take care of it, it’s getting cut.”
While showing fans an old video of his son sporting long locks, Chris insisted that people needed to “relax” about Lux’s latest haircut and “go cry to someone who cares.”
“The hair thing, it’s over and done with,” he later stated. “A lot of people just wanna have something to say because this person went Live to talk down on me like that … .”
As you may remember, this isn’t the first hair-hacking squabble Chris and Kail have gotten into regarding their sons’ tresses.
Back in 2020, Kail revealed to fans that Chris had taken it upon himself to cut Lux’s hair without her knowledge or permission. The haircut– which Kail said was Lux’s first– was reportedly done by Chris with a pair of kitchen scissors, taking Lux’s waist-length locks to his shoulders.
As he did in the most-recent follicle feud, Chris defended the kitchen haircut on social media, telling followers that Kail was lucky he only cut off a few inches of their son’s hair and didn’t “scalp [Lux’s] ass.” Chris also denied at the time that the haircut in question was Lux’s first, insisting that his son’s hair had been cut more than once prior to that point, and that he was actually just cleaning up a butchered barber shop cut that Lux had received while in Kail’s care. That incident–which The Ashley dubbed “HaircutGate,” led to Kail freaking out, getting in trouble with the law and more.
In 2022, HaircutGate 2 occurred when Kail and Chris’ other son Creed was 18 months old. He came home from a visit at Chris’ house with all of his curly locks lopped off, courtesy of yet another Kitchen Haircut by Chris. The dramatic cut came just a day or so after Kail spent a ton of money on hair products to use on Creed’s curls.
Watch a clip from Chris’ Live below defending HaircutGate 3, and hear Kail’s original comments about Lux’s (latest) haircut.
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Did she not do this tantrum over hair with Joe and Elliott’s hair?? she cray
At least Kail restrained herself from getting physical this time.
Seriously, though, Lux is the victim here, not his egotistical, selfish parents.
Jesus fucking Christ… Figure your shit out.
Chris is a psycho POS and Kail’s biggest mistake. He’s just doing stuff to piss her off and he doesn’t care if that affects his kids because he never wanted them in the first place.
Chris is Kails karma. And I’m here for every article about it.
Kail likes to control absolutely everything and she loses her shit that she can’t control Chris.
It’s just fucking hair.
Kail does what she wants without consultation to Chris ever.
Kail uses ALL her kids as pawns against their fathers.
Chris is Kails karma.
Certainly this is an issue the court could solve. Reduce his visitation to supervised until he can act like a responsible parent. Shaving off an 8 year olds hair is abuse. It’s not the first or second time. It’s a pattern.
How did he defend kidnapping his kids? He kept them away from Kail during her parenting time and wouldnt tell her or the police where the boys were. He kept them for a week.
So Kail had another proffessional do his hair and Chris has his GF do his hair the way he wants it to look. How many hours has that poor boy sat while Chris’ GF redid his hair because it has to be Chris’ way and what did the child want?
And now he kept them for the week and two adults, from which one a hairdresser, couldnt take care of the boys hair. Not the hairdresser but the idiot shaved his hair off. WTF didt he at least have her do that to prevent his son getting hurt? How much violence was used?
who gives a shit
Kail is right.. to get such an extreme cut without talking to her about it is petty and hurts the kid. I don’t like her but she’s right
Chris is nasty and does it out of spite, the saddest part is it’s his own kids. How does he not see how gorgeous their hair is, too busy trying to hurt their mother
I like kail fine and all, but you’re lying if you say she hasn’t caused her fair share of unnecessary conflict with her children’s fathers. Chris really is like the equivalent of karma for this woman.
Just as a side note. The Ashley “ sons Lux and Creed with Chris, as well as five other kids by three other dads” – this is unnecessary to this story and it’s weird you keep shaming her over it
You must be new here!
@tam ~ stating facts is not ‘shaming’.
typo ~ should be @tEm
I know that man has never paid for his son’s hair to be done because I know he wouldn’t spend the money. He did something out of spite he could do for free.
“Little white boys don’t get their hair cut like this!!!” What Kail said to Jo over their oldest son’s haircut when he was little. It doesn’t matter how many “people of color” she sleeps with. She will always be an arrogant racist. And I will always believe that Kail is jealous over Vee.
Sorry, I don’t agree here. I think she cares for her children and the hair, and pays attention to different needs based on texture, etc.
I also think Kail allows her kids to be who they are and express themselves as they want. Which makes me certain that if her child wanted his head shaved, he would have it shaved. He didn’t want this. And it makes me incredibly sad that Chris continues to do this because we all know it isn’t because Kail “doesn’t take care of the hair.” It is because Chris is a piece of shit.
I personally have no opinion on Kail one way or the other. I 100% agree with here here. I don’t think she is racist and I don’t believe for one second she wasn’t taking care of those kids, hair and all.
They need a court order that states he cannot make any body altering decisions for their children without agreeing. And they should also have one that states neither of them can post about each other on social media. Keep that shiz offline!
Haircuts aren’t body altering
Removing someone’s hair without consent is assault. Many cultures grow their hair out and removing it is extremely life altering.
Chris really is ugly inside and out. This is abuse. Lux is old enough to have a say about his own hair. Kids deserve bodily autonomy too. This is an ongoing thing that Chris does where he uses the kids to piss off Kailyn. He doesn’t have 50/50 custody and doesn’t consistently pay child support. He shouldn’t be making decisions like this anyway without the primary parent’s and the child’s approval.
Ok, Chris is his father- he has the same say as the wacky mom!
I disagree. If Chris was an ACTIVE father, yes. He’s nothing but a lazy bum and a mouth piece. If Javi decides to take Lincoln for a haircut, that’s acceptable. I absolutely believe Chris does these things just to piss Kail off. Using a child as a pawn to piss the other parent off is never ok.
He actually doesn’t. Kailyn has primary custody.
Kail’s always bitching about something and Chris is always acting a fool in response to her. I don’t see a problem with a father getting his son’s hair cut any more than I see a problem with a mother wanting to be consulted about something like that. These two are stubborn, petulant children. Kail is a control freak who thinks she has total, absolute control over everything including the fathers of her children. Chris is a typical lazy guy who wants to live as he wants without having to compromise or answer to anyone. This is probably why he’s not working.
The other thing that strikes me is the child support issue. I don’t get it and I’m not being a jerk here, so please don’t come at me sideways. My ex never had to pay support because he refused to work and I had a decent job. At first he was ordered to pay a whopping $10/week and rarely paid that. Then, after a year or so of not getting support, I took him back to court. He cried the blues about how he doesn’t have any income and told the judge that I was working and providing full health/vision/dental coverage for my kids (only 1 was his), and the judge dismissed the child support obligation and his arrears. The rationale was that since I was working & made enough to support my kids and the father wasn’t working, I didn’t need support from him. Kail has a lot more money than Chris & I don’t think he’s even gainfully employed. Are the child support laws that much different from place to place?
So because you got a crap deal do should she? All parents should be responsible for supporting their children regardless if the other parent “needs” the money.
He uses this butchering of the kids hair as punishment not because the kids need a haircut. And not even to punish the kids but to punish Kail. 2 totally different things.
You are irrationally angry for no reason. None of this pertains to you or your life, and no, that’s not at all what I was saying. Read everything. I was just wondering how different jurisdictions determine child support. From what I understand, many courts take the income of both parents into consideration and determine what support should be paid using a fraction system. It just surprises me that he owes $25K in back support when I can’t imagine his monthly obligation is all that much given Kail’s income.
And I specifically said that Chris does shit just to piss Kail off. I don’t know why you’re jumping on me like I spit on you? Now that Chris has shown a pattern of punishing Kail by cutting Lux’s hair, she needs to go to court with documentation of the things Chris has done that can be considered major decisions and ask that he be barred from doing any of them without her input. But on the flip side, Kail IS a control freak & if she wants Chris to include her in major decisions, she’s going to have to compromise and include him when she makes major decisions. It can’t always be her way just because she’s the mother.
Sounds like you are the one that is bitter and angry. Also going back on what you said when you specifically said you “don’t see a problem with a father getting his son’s haircut.” It actually is a problem when its used for coercion and control. Then it’s called abuse.
Just because you give deadbeats a pass doesn’t mean they should get one. Trying to backtrack on your statements after the fact isn’t a good look
Hairgate 2025 🥱
Hahaha!!!! Hilarious!