Trigger Warning: This story contains mentions of domestic violence.
Nearly three months after filing for divorce, Patrick Mendes is accusing his estranged wife and fellow “90 Day Fiancé” star Thais Ramone of engaging in an extramarital affair prior to their split— and pulling a knife on him in front of their daughter!
According to Starcasm, Patrick’s attorneys filed a motion on Wednesday in which Patrick alleges that Thais– the mother of his three-year-old daughter Aleesi– had an extramarital affair that he learned about in April. The filing goes on to claim that, after Patrick found out about the affair, Thais “demanded” that he move out of their shared home, as she had informed her “new romantic partner” that she and Patrick had already separated and were no longer cohabitating.
While Patrick was reportedly reluctant to vacate the residence, he ultimately did so in early May after Thais allegedly “made threats” to him. Weeks later, the estranged exes got into the infamous altercation that led to Thais’ arrest. (As you may remember, Thais was locked up just days after Patrick filed for divorce.)
“On May 22, 2026, the Parties got into an argument that led to [Thais] getting violent with [Patrick],” the motion reads. “During that incident, [Thais] grabbed a knife and threatened [Patrick] with it, all while holding [their child]. [Patrick] subsequently contacted law enforcement and [Thais] was arrested for Domestic Violence.”
Although Patrick claims in his motion that his daughter’s nanny witnessed the domestic violence incident go down, Thais’ charge– Domestic Battery: First Offense, a misdemeanor in the state of Nevada– was ultimately dismissed.
In addition to the alleged affair, Patrick claims in his motion that he and Thais had reached a custody agreement for Aleesi, but that Thais “reneged” on the agreement, leaving the exes “without a stable parenting schedule.”
Patrick is also accusing Thais of ceasing “any productive communication since retaining counsel.”
“[Patrick] would never withhold [Aleesi] from [Thais] and has never done so in the past,” the motion goes on to state, adding that Patrick is “hopeful” that, once the court puts in place a “fair custodial schedule,” Thais will abide by said order and efficiently co-parent with Patrick.
Furthermore, the motion argues that the court should “admonish” Thais for her actions and inform her that, once a custody order is put in place, “any further withholding will be considered ‘Parental Abduction.’”
Despite Thais’ arrest, her alleged affair and her reneging on the custody agreement, Patrick– who initially requested full legal and primary custody of Aleesi– is asking that the court rule that he and Thais continue sharing joint physical and joint legal custody of their daughter, as he believes it’s in the toddler’s best interest.
He goes on to insist that both he and Thais can “absolutely cooperate adequately” in order to meet their daughter’s needs. He’s also requesting that the current parenting schedule– in which he has Aleesi Wednesday through Sunday and Thais has Aleesi Sunday through Wednesday– remain in place.
While the motion states that the court can’t determine child support obligations until Patrick and Thais have filed their respective Financial Disclosure Forms, Patrick is asking that Thais be responsible for all of his attorney’s fees in the event that she “opposes [his] reasonable” requests.
The TLC stars– who recently appeared together on Season 3 of “90 Day: The Last Resort”– had a case management conference on Thursday. According to the court records The Ashley obtained, Thais turned in her certificate showing that she had completed her parent education class.
The former couple’s next court date will be October 6. They are scheduled to go over the motions for joint legal and physical custody of their daughter, as well as attempt to decide on how custody will be divided up. Other topics on the agenda include child support, as well as determining who will pay court costs and attorneys’ fees.
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(Photos: TLC; Instagram)
I never liked Thais it was clear from day dot that she wanted a green card.
The fact she didn’t want to tell her dad that her and Patrick were together and going to get married, made me suspicious of her.
The way she treated John in his house was disgusting, then she said John treated her mean 😯.
She was always being mean to Patrick and John, especially when she couldn’t get what she wanted.
I can remember when she tried to force patrick to marry her in Vegas cause he told her he wouldn’t marry her till she tells her father.
I believe Patrick 100% that she’s abusive cause she’s been abusive on a lot of the shows she nothing but a nasty bully.
She should be counting her lucky stars that she’s still seeing her daughter after threating Patrick with a knife while Patrick was holding aleesi cause tbh the judge should’ve gave Patrick full custody and Thais access in a controlled environment.
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She did launch pretty quickly at Shekinah and start clawing at her. Yet people villanainzed Shekinah instead, not that she isn’t a piece of work herself! But I always thought that taking it to a physical level so quickly was the bigger crime.
To be honest I was never a fan of Patrick or Thais. But seeing how she has acted on the Last Resort makes me believe he could be telling the truth. I definitely believe she got violent. If she pulled a knife on him while he was holding their child then as a parent I wouldn’t trust her to keep my child safe.
The one adorable part of the story is Aleesi she is so cute! I hope they figure it out because she deserves two healthy, loving and strong parents.
I was never fond of Thais. I hope they can co-parent.
What happened to the like/dislike feature?
Wow!!! Well let’s hope their Baby will Not be scarred by all of this!!! 🪬🙏🪬