Ronnie Ortiz-Magro’s Baby Mama Jen Harley Blames ‘Jersey Shore’ for Ruining Their Family; Says Ronnie Hasn’t Seen Daughter In Months

“It’s all your fault!”

G.T.L.: gym, tan, let’s take zero blame for our actions…

Ronnie Ortiz-Magro’s baby mama Jen Harley is reportedly blaming Jersey Shore for the downfall of her relationship and for ruining her family, according to a new interview she did with In Touch Weekly. Jen told the magazine she “hates” the show and wishes “it was never part of our lives.”

“It completely ruined our family, ruined the person I was in love with,” she stated.

Jen said at first she was “excited” about seeing her then-boyfriend on the show’s spin-off, Jersey Shore Family Vacation, but she quickly changed her mind after tuning in.

We can’t begin to imagine why…

“So I started watching it and then I just realized everything they were doing and how Ronnie was acting on the show and it was just really sh**ty so I didn’t watch it anymore,” she said.

Jen went on to say that she actually did like Ronnie’s cast mates (even though she previously called Nicole “Snooki” Polizzi out for allegedly bullying her), and said that they were all “really nice” to her — or at least to her face.

“But I mean, we weren’t ever really friends,” she added. “But I don’t think we have any bad tension or anything.” 

Jen said Ronnie’s fans often come to his defense online, preventing her from being able to defend herself “unless it’s on social media” — something her and Ronnie partake in quite often. Just this week, Jen took to Instagram Stories to share her thoughts about narcissists. While she refrained from calling Ronnie out by name, the post mentioned those who “have no problem abandoning families and loved ones” and those who inflict “emotional manipulation and abuse.”  

Jen later told In Touch Weekly that Ronnie hasn’t seen their daughter Ariana “in months.”

“We have no contact. We’re not even allowed to talk to each other,” Jen said, adding that the protection order that’s currently in place bars the former lovebirds from even texting or Face-Timing. Due to the current global pandemic, Jen says this order will remain in place for the foreseeable future. 

“We have to wait for our next court date to even modify [the protection order],” she said. “It’s been put off.”

Ariana’s second birthday was last week, and Ronnie recognized it with an Instagram post, telling his daughter, “No matter where U are, who keeps U from me, I will always be here for U! It’ll are my world, you are my reason! I wake up everyday thanking God for U! Even though I can’t be with you, I will always be here. I love you so much! And will never stop fighting for U!”

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IT WAS APRIL 1ST, I FELT U IN HER STOMACH.. KICK AND KICK AND KICK! I HAD TO FLY TO LONDON FOR WORK… I FLEW TO NEWARK TO MEET THE CAST MEMBERS.. I HAD A FEELING I SHOULDN’T HAVE WENT, I FELT I SHOULD’VE STAYED.. SO I FLY TO MEET UR UNCLES & AUNTS.. THEY GIVE US A 4 HOUR FLIGHT DELAY ON THE GROUND.. I WANTED TO FLY HOME.. THEY BOARDED OUR PLANE LAST MINUTE.. WE SAT ON THE RUN WAY FOR 2 HOURS… I FELL ASLEEP AND WOKE UP AS WE TOOK OFF.. I SAT ON THE PLANE AFRAID AND WORRIED.. I GET A FT! THAT SAYS I’M HAVING THE BABY! WE ARE 3 HOURS FROM LONDON.. I PANICKED AND WE FIGURED IT OUT.. I LANDED AND GOT THRU CUSTOMS.. I HAD TO RE CHECK MY BAG AND GET BACK THRU CUSTOMS.. I BOARD THE PLANE!! I GET A TEXT SAYING THE BABY IS ALMOST THERE! I HAVE A 8 HOURS FLIGHT! IN THE AIR I AM WORRYING SO MUCH, I DIDN’T WANT U TO BE BORN WITHOUT ME THERE, I DIDN’T WANT UR FIRST SIGHT TO BE NOBODY.. I FINALLY LAND WITHOUT WIFI AND NO CONTACT! I GET THRU CUSTOMS AND RACE TO MY CAB! I SAID I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD SAY THIS BUT I AM HAVING A KID AND U NEED TO HURRY UP! I LAND IN TIME TO HE THERE FOR YOUR BIRTH.. IT WAS CHAOS BUT I HELD YOU FIRST, I LOOKED INTO YOUR EYES FIRST, THE DOCTOR TOLD ME THEY NEVER SAW FATHER COVER A BABY EYES LIKE I DID… THAT MEANS NO MATTER WHERE U ARE, WHO KEEPS U FROM ME, I WILL ALWAYS BE HERE FOR U! IT’LL ARE MY WORLD , YOU ARE MY REASON! I WAKE UP EVERYDAY THANKING GOD FOR U! EVEN THOUGH I CAN’T BE WITH YOU, I WILL ALWAYS BE HERE. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! AND WILL NEVER STOP FIGHTING FOR U! #DADDYSLITTLEGIRL #HappyBirthdaybabyGirl #DaddyLovesYou

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Whether or not the show is to blame for the demise of Ronnie and Jen’s relationship/family, the couple has been embroiled in constant drama for more than two years.

During a pretrial conference in February, Ronnie was ordered by a judge to stop contacting Jen following an altercation between the couple that happened in October 2019 — an incident for which Ronnie is facing several misdemeanor charges. Despite that order, in January, Jen allegedly attacked Ronnie in his home, resulting in Ronnie filing a restraining order against her

In December 2019, Jen called Ronnie out on social media for allegedly abusing her.

Ahh… memories!

Ronnie has not yet responded publicly to Jen’s latest interview but…stay tuned….

RELATED STORY: Nicole “Snooki” Polizzi Claims ‘Jersey Shore Family Vacation’ Producers Made Her Give Mean Toast at Angelina Pivarnick’s Wedding

(Photos: MTV; Instagram)

16 Comments

  1. Jen is a Borderline Personality. She is toxic and unfortunately Ron’s daughter will suffer the ramifications if she is granted custody.


  2. I’m pretty sure everything that went wrong in her life is Trumps fault. Sorry, I’ve been watching MSNBC all morning

    stay lit


  3. Homegirl blaming the show for her and Ron’s problems but she sure didn’t mind living off that money. Remember when she sent Ron a text demanding $20k from him? Couldn’t have extorted her man if it wasn’t for said show she now has a problem with.

    Did the show make you spit in his face on camera? Drag him with the car? Throw an ash tray at his face? Punch him in the face? Slash his tv?

    Girl stop.

    (And yes, I know Ron put his hands on her too which is worse but he’s not out here blaming the tv show for it either)


  4. This is ridiculous. She has a restraining order against him, he CAN’T reach out to his daughter without violating that order and going to jail.

    That poor baby is so screwed with these 2 as parents.


  5. While I think Jen is to blame MORE here, Ronnies post was pretty ridiculous. Just a lot of caps lock details about how he made a poor decision to fly across the Atlantic so close to her due date…. starting parenting off well. Oy.


  6. Yeah, sure, Jen. The show is to blame.

    Also, RONNIE, LEARN HOW TO USE LOWER CAPS IN POSTS, stop screaming on Instagram!


  7. For a person that was always crying about wanting his daughter to have the best,to not have a y contact with her, Ronnie you are the dumbest person that little girl is a part of you like u can’t fly home on weekends,as of now Ronnie you are a Jersey shore piece of shit,dud grow the fuck up that’s all peace out duece bag


    1. Not trying to defend him cause I can’t stand him either, but he can’t see Ariana because of the court order requiring him to have no contact with Jen or their daughter. But I agree with everything else you said! Regardless, they’re both fucking insane 🤦🏽‍♀️


  8. [* Shield plugin marked this comment as “Trash”. Reason: Failed Bot Test (expired) *]
    Yet she has no problem spending Ronnie’s Jersey shore $!

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